Don’t Disgrace Others for Own Benefits

All of us need accolade for our efforts, performance and achieving result.  We want recognition which is more than money. 

If you praise someone continuously and that too publicly, he may be an ardent follower of yours.  At the same time, there are people who want recognition by blaming others and find out nooks in their efforts even it is good.

They want to always blame others, find faults; they love to degrade their colleagues, friends, relatives and even their own sons or daughters.  Just to prove that they are intelligent, smart and wise than others, they always criticize and by blaming others, they like to increase their own superiority and in turn, get credit for other’s good works.

It is pathetic that many people fall in this category. They demoralize others by humiliating and want to take recognition.

Why they do like that? 

They get satisfaction by snatching other people’s worth.  They are not able to establish their credentials on their own merits.  They are characteristically weak minded types, jealous of others accolade, not at all concern with others growth, self centered, get enjoyment to bully. These characteristics are generated in them because of environmental constraints, family culture, and society’s imposition of various impediments from their childhood itself.

These people are known as credit mongers.  They are very much harmful for society.  They want to boost their own selves by bemoaning others and in turn, to establish their credibility. 

They want to grow at the cost of others.  They do not know that ultimately they are spoiling their own image because one or the other day, they will be exposed.  Truth will be divulged.  These people, of course, are not bothered about their own reputation because of their behavioral pattern.  They think that what they are doing, are their legitimate rights.

Our society is also not able to recognize their real identities because of their rhetorical skills, their own way of convincing others and their self proclaimed charismatic power.  With this power, they try to find fault with others all the time, and take the credit of the good deeds performed by others.

Our society must discourage the activities of these, people so that they cannot detriment the environment and demoralize others.  In short, by blaming others and taking the credit is an ignominious thing.