When people are too frustrated after completion of all the responsibilities in their lives, they feel “What is the need of the life further?” When this type of situation arises in life, many people murmur “Oh God, you take me and give me adobe to your feet; “I do not want to live anymore.” Though they do this murmuring all the while in reality, 90% of them do not want to die. Moreover, death is a term from which we get frightened. It comes as a monstrous in our life, but if you live life selflessly with a spiritual touch, thinking for others and also not hurting anyone, you will not find death as a terminology which will create fear psychology at your mind. The question comes, why people commit suicide? The pertinent reason is when people are clinging to various glamorous things in their lives very much, and do not like to relinquish their desires, then this sort of feeling arises. Because no sooner they fail to fulfill their desires, the mind just swings from enjoyment pole to distress pole and when the level of distress becomes very high, the tendency of committing suicide comes into mind. But if you analyze deeply on this aspect, you will find that the mind either propels you to accept this wish of committing suicide or one is overpowering his mind to ignore the same. We all harp for various lusts in our life and we like to fulfill the same knowing well that life is temporary and it will definitely have an end. Despite your efforts, you cannot draw a line between beginning and end and you cannot change the phase of temporary. So, the question comes when the people who commit suicide are not against life at all, it just comes to their mind and they act promptly. Most of the suicides happen on irrational behavior, illogical thinking, and impulsive action. People want life in its totality. They want to grab it the whole and when they fail – and they are bound to fail, they commit suicide. At that point in time, they feel that without committing suicide they do not have any other alternative. They will not be satisfied even they have received many things in their lives. They will be always desirous to receive more and more.
Everybody likes to be secretive and nobody likes his life to be like an open page that another person can see what that particular person is doing or what he is not doing. The concerned person only knows about his activities. The people who commit suicide, they become so aloof on the nick of the time that even their close family members fail to understand their motives. Some people, of course don’t provide any clue and maintain their regular schedules. They are more dangerous to get recognized by the people surrounding them. Life span is not so big, but still, we have a very high level of aspiration level to get our desires fulfilled more and more. When the situation is beyond control for any person, failure is bound to happen. This failure to fulfill high aspiration will provide a feeling of getting deceived from the life and the person will feel that they are cheated by their lovers; family, relatives and/ or they are cheated or ignored by society. But the people forget that this lacking is not from outward, it is from inward. They have cheated themselves from the beginning. They are taught to ask more whether it is rational or irrational and this demand of asking more and more making them think that they have not received anything. They become frustrated; they become angry and will be always having irritation. Their frustration level some time makes them so enraged that they are interested to take revenge against their family members or simply they try to leave alone. In this situation, mind moves to other end but still, they do not know with whom they are supposed to take revenge. So, they decide to kill themselves. But doing this, it is very important to know that one should not destroy life in this fashion. It does not end the existing of life which is otherwise supposed to be very bright. It is God’s blessing to have human lie. The experience of committing suicide is not at all an ideal proposition. When you are taking rest and not thinking on any subject, you are simply in a relax mode with your eyes closed and at that particular moment, there is no desire. When the mind is silent like a lake without any ripples, a deep feeling will arise in your mind. Why is it so? Life has already provided you enough which are more than your expectations. In this situation, you can find many moments of happiness or pleasure, enjoyment of life but the above sequence is something far beyond happiness and pleasure and it is a pure blissfulness. Many people, of course cannot feel this moment. Unless one is spiritually motivated enough, it is not enough to have this moment of bliss. They will never think for ending their lives abruptly.
If you more cling to regular schedules of lives, more attached to various materialistic comforts, it is really very hard to come out from the situation. You will not get frustrated. Everybody one or other time will be frustrated and sometimes, this frustration will go at a deeper level. If you can go deeper into the real reason for this frustration level, if you can know the technique how to be relaxed, all your frustrations will disappear. Because when you will be in a silent mode for a considerable time without any provocation of mind, you will be completely in trance mood. There will be no any provocation, and no desire. The person will not be bothered about his ego. Even it is there, the person will take a jump out of this ego because whether the ego is more or less, you cannot have a relaxed attitude. If everything is resolved under your deep sense, you will feel that you do not have any intention at all to end life in between because you do not have any desire to cling to anything.
When the suicide desire comes at any stage of life, it is not a suicide; it is sort of a wish for liberation. But it does not relieve you from ego, desire, lust and detaches you from any other attachments. It is s strong desire to end the life to get an absolute freedom from all the constraints and hassles of life. But most people are not in a position to accept this fact when they are deeply in distress and they give many excuses not to live any more. So, if are driven by any amount of frustration, it should not make you emotionally drenched and propel you towards the last resort of life committing suicide. Suicide is nothing but a failure of your going deeper into life analyze the reasons of frustration and to overcome the same.